your finger pad placement on the trigger may also play a part (below is for 1911, but can be applied to other pistols as well)...
https://gunsamerica.com/digest/1911-trigger-placement/
I'm sorry for your loss Hayes. From the day we introduce into the home, we all know it's just a matter of time before we have to say good bye. We do what's best for them in spite of the pain of their loss. Remember all the good times with Rylee.
I do like the grip texture. I really disliked the grip texture on a compact 3.5" Prodigy I had for short time.
I'll probably never own another 2011 unless I find and can somehow justify a Staccato. I like their grips.