Gotcha. I don't do much of either anymore. I used to do a lot of BBQ's for big get to-gethers, especially family get-togethers, and an occasional big fish fry. Even done a few 'Low Country boils' for certain occasions. None of it commercially though. I really enjoy cooking when I don't absolutely have to, and especially for crowds, but I literally hate it when I have to.
I remember a time when the wife had to go in to the hospital for some surgery. She made ahead quite a bit of cooked food and put it in the fridge for me to eat while she was in the hospital and recovering. A good thing she did too, I ate every bit of what she had fixed up until the sink was stacked to overflowing with dirty dishes, and not knowing for sure when she'd be home to wash them, I started on TV dinners cause I can't cook indoors.
But then the trash can got full of the little aluminum trays, so again not knowing how long it would be till she could empty it, I started eating out. Burgers, pizzas, oriental buffets, tacos, etc. Anywhere just so I didn't have to cook. Man, I really got tired of the fast food world.
Wouldn't you know it, as soon as she came home from the hospital, she wanted to go out to eat ..... said she didn't feel like cooking ...... can you believe that? She hadn't cooked a damn thing in over two weeks. Man, I was really tired of eating out and told her I needed some home cooking. Of course being the husband I am and knowing of all those dishes she'd have to wash before she would be able to cook, I told her I'd take her to a nice foreign restaurant and suggested "Taco Bell".
Well, she made a couple of really off color remarks about what I could do about that, made a couple completely anatomically impossible suggestions as to what I could do with that stove and a few select kitchen utensils, and that's when I had to explain to her how I hated to cook indoors. Since then I've just left it at that and I only cook for bigger outdoors shin-digs.
How does all that stuff work out for you? I'll bet your wife even cleans up the 'Egg' when you do a big BBQ cookout for her, don't she?