I understand the whole concept of “My comfy” is not the same as “Your comfy” and all the variables that are intertwined.
Cool.
As long as we can start from this base of understanding, we should be able to play a bit.
I’m a jeans and tee shirt guy and keep my pants up with an “off the hook” normal store-bought 1&1/2” belt.
I'm T-over-jeans, too:
That shirt got progressively more oversized as the day wore on...that's the day's-end exercise, and by that time, it was sweat-soaked and stretched-out from the repeated tugging to clear it for the draw. But that's really how you would have found me virtually any day of the week, 365-days a year (I'm a nerdy academic benchtop scientist by trade, so I don't have to dress particularly smart or adult-like for work
)...albeit with items that fit a little less sloppily.
I don't usually wear an undershirt, but three days like that summer taught me a thing or two about the need for a rash-guard during training, so as of the last few years, this is how you'd find me at most training classes
While I'm not the type to believe that a "gun belt" is necessary, I do believe that a PROPERLY SUPPORTIVE anchor point for the belt-mounted holster *_IS_* definitely a necessity.
So what does it mean when I suggest that a belt - in my view - isn't absolute? It's because depending on the particulars of your gun/holster setup, if it's lighter or just distributes weight better, for example, it's quite possible that the waistband of your pants can provide sufficient support. Similarly, different belts are able to support different holster/gun setups differently. Traditionally, we're taught that a "gun belt" has to be of a certain stiffness and thickness, whereas in-reality, stiffness, thickness,
and rigidity all interplay: a belt that's thick and stiff may not need any rigidity at all, versus a belt that is thin or narrow, which may require extra structural rigidity in order to allow it to support the same weight/size of gear. Modern AIWB has perhaps done the most to change this outlook on belts, now with many who prefer this method of concealed-carry preferring belts which are less rigid (i.e. more conforming) and offering more adjustability (i.e. "infinitely adjustable"), with certain holster design parameters (more on this later) that help optimize concealment with such a setup.
All this is the long way of saying that while I am hesitant to lay the blame with your belt, I'd like to still keep it in-mind a as a possibility - and not in so much as I'm suggesting that you need a "gun belt," per-se, but that in keeping our minds open to possibility, we should be willing to entertain that experimenting with different belts may help.
The Vedder I tried wasn’t too bad in the 3-4 o’clock position, but printed really bad, it didn’t have good retention, and the leather flopped over the opening.
Virtually all holsters with a "soft" sweat-guard extension will "flop over" at some point in its usable life, depending on the rigidity of the material/treatment/construct, how the holster is used (a holster in which the gun is carried all the time will see less wear here, as it's when the gun is withdrawn that this area sees a lack of support; alternatively, this can also be interpreted as "harshness of use" - i.e. does the wearer work outdoors in a physically demanding profession, and the holster is thus exposed to sweat more frequently than, say, a retiree who lounges on his lawn-chair for most of the day), and the body shape (someone porky
like me, for example, places this area under more demand when the gun is withdrawn, versus someone slimmer) as well as body-to-gear interactions of the end-user (i.e. is how the user is sitting constantly bending the sweat-guard over? and does that user assume that position more frequently [i.e. is a professional driver] versus less [i.e. office-worker who prefers a standing workstation]). Many -but not all- hybrid holsters have this shortcoming.
Similarly, retention is a harder ask for hybrid holsters, and most of the ones with "better retention" tend to employ some additional retention mechanism to better hold on to the gun than just a friction fit.
In terms of printing, what was the offending area of the gun? Is it the heel of the grip/magazine? or is it something else?
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^ The ability to adjust for rake/cant via should mean that printing at the rear sight should not be as much of a concern, but the ride height based on the clip shown seems like it would be high, so that adjustability may not do as much as it otherwise would. What I am going to bet on instead is that it's the heel of the grip or baseplate of the magazine. Given the centerline-of-slide mounting of the belt-clip, I'm thinking that you might be getting a bit of outward grip rotation that's causing the heel of the grip or mag baseplate to print. It's possible - tying back to that thing I told ya I was gonna write about a little bit above
- that either getting a holster that has an integral wing/claw or other type of such attachment to help with grip rotation (or purchasing a suitable aftermarket wing/claw add-on or replacement clip) may help in this regard.
Similarly, that gun "digging into your abdomen" may actually perversely be that it is rotating outward top-to-bottom: i.e. that your abdomen is pushing the back of the gun away from the body while allowing the muzzle to rotate inwards, with the pivot point being where the clip is holding on to the belt. In this case, a muzzle wedge/pad -either designed-for-purpose or home-made- could
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^ On Dark Star Gear's website, you'll see both the Dark Wing and the Light Wing as examples of the former, as well as the Tear Drop soft and the Flat foam muzzle pads as examples of the latter. Similarly, you'll see examples of each of these in RCS (Raven Concealment Systems) format:
Depending on your specific holster design and its hardware placement, some of these may be what you're looking for, to help enhance concealment.
Moreover, in the AIWB, the grip dug into my stomach and the barrel poking into my thigh caused so much pain I couldn’t even pretend to sit down. The same thing happened with the cross draw position(which I “feel/sense” would be the most natural for me).
I'm unfortunately not at all knowledgeable/experienced enough with crossdraw, so I don't want to mis-guide you by taking any guesses, but in terms of AIWB, oftentimes, the issue with both gut/ribcage and thigh/inguinal-crease discomfort can be ameliorated by having a setup that simply is able to move just little,
when you want it to.
This last part is very tricky.
Ideally, the holster should not ride up -at all- upon the draw: your retention should break cleanly as you withdraw the gun from its holster, and neither the holster nor your pants/belt should, even with ultra-slow-motion video (as captured by, for example, the
Coach's Eye app), ride "up" before it breaks from retention. Why? Look at it this way - you can't get the gun into the fight until it is upholstered, so, in-essence, that holster not "letting go" when you draw is the same as if I were to suggest to you that in a duel with another gunslinger, you were to withhold your draw for X amount of time *after* your opponent has initiated the action: no bueno, right?
So the problem becomes that you don't want the rig to move when you draw - and part of this requires some inherent stability in the holster as well as its anchor points - the belt-mounting hardware ("clips") as well as of the belt itself: i.e. the belt cannot be so loose so that it, itself, flops up-and-down. But yet, that when you do choose to sit, kneel, bend-over, squat, etc. that it *does* allow sufficient movement so that you can temporarily displace the gun -or whatever hotpoint(s) is/are bothering you- to a more comfortable position.
The naysayers will then always point to the fact that moving the holster or otherwise fidgeting with our clothing can be a "tell."
Certainly, that's true.
However, entertain the fact that for perhaps as long as there was tailored clothing, from the barstool to the boardroom, men have "hitched their pants" (to prevent pulling out the crease or saddling your trousers with "knee indentations") or "adjusted their waist/belt" as they sat or stood. We pull down on our vest or our sweater as we stand or smooth our tie and button our jacket..... Any one of these motions can be incorporated into the subtle adjustments necessary in order to more comfortably -and efficiently- place/stage our holster as we go about the daily business of living.
Just like the sling for your rifle, don't think of the holster as a static accessory.