No, no, that is not what I was suggesting, at all. It was not what I wrote, and furthermore, it was never my intent to imply that it was.
My intent with the firearms training comparison was just as I wrote the words: only to highlight that in the vast majority of our training, we are not giving the other half of the equation its necessary due. That, specifically, in the real-world, our opponent(s) always get(s) a say.
With competitive and non-cooperative drills, we start to approach that end of the curve, and with Force-on-Force type training, we get even closer to the asymptote.
But even so, it still never saves us from being unlucky.
As
@10mmLife noted and
@KI4WTF reiterated, the best we can all hope for is to simply not be there for that fight at all.