You think it does not matter? Tell that to any solider who did sweeps in the middle east. Trust me it matters. I am not going to try and move around my house in the dark with a lever action rifle against two or more perps. I mean if they come in and announce to me that they are alone and are telling the truth, I would grab a single shot 4.10.with home defense rounds. But since I really would not trust them at that point, I think I feel more comfortable with not having to reload. Over penetration is a huge deal if you have other good guys in another room. If you hit your target, you want it to stop there and not take out someone else on the other side of a wall.I seriously doubt that its really going to matter if you have a AR9, Beretta92, M1 carbine, 357 revolver or a lever action 30/30. Unless you are using an exceedingly underpowered or ultra low capacity weapon, its probably not going to matter enough to talk about.
Yeah, I have a couple of shot guns and maybe my 4.10, but no way I am going to go around securing the house after an event with a 5ft long shot gun. ( most hallways are what 3ft wide??)I am going to move fast and deliberate to make sure the situation is contained.I hear commonly, " My pistol is there to get me to my rifle". I don't necessarily disagree, BUT, in reality it's very highly unlikely that you are going to have time to grab a handy pistol and make your way to wherever the hell you stashed your rifle, then switch guns and engage a target. Whatever firearm you envision as your primary HD weapon should be the one most readily available to you as you sleep.
Which weapon is best suited for that task is subjective. A high capacity handgun works. So does a short barreled, high capacity semi auto or pump shotgun. So does an AR pistol. So does a pair of large, very protective dogs. So does a well thought out security system with lights, cameras and a deafening horn. If a guy comes through a window and is overwhelmed by flashing red, white and green strobe lights and an alarm so loud you can't hear yourself think, he's probably not going to go tiptoeing through your wife's jewelry box.
Whatever you plan to employ, just be sure you practice with it.
because you have the benefit of it being your home and can probably walk around it in the dark, even when half asleep.
Yeah and if you have others in the house, teach them to hit the floor in the event of a situation. Kids tend to wake up and wander around and find mom and dad when half asleep and that is the last thing you need. Even with almost every precaution a couple layers of sheet rock is not going to stop even bird shot.If you can't, you should. This is something you should practice as well. Just like having a plan for a fire or a flood or a tornado. Drill these things until it's second nature. Or don't cry when you get caught flat footed because it will be your own fault.
I hear commonly, " My pistol is there to get me to my rifle". I don't necessarily disagree, BUT, in reality it's very highly unlikely that you are going to have time to grab a handy pistol and make your way to wherever the hell you stashed your rifle, then switch guns and engage a target. Whatever firearm you envision as your primary HD weapon should be the one most readily available to you as you sleep.
Whatever you plan to employ, just be sure you practice with it.
So I assume you have trained or instructed her to move to cover and stay there?When I turn in for the night, in addition to securing the perimeter, checking locks, ect., within reach will be my cell, flashlight, Saint, frogsticker, at the minimum. Don't plan on having to make my way to anything (but perhaps the perp).
In my particular case, I am delaying and may never instruct my wife in self defense (with firearms). Why?
She is high end nervous at times, spooks easily, and I'm not certain she can/will exercise the collected discipline necessary to do the paramount thing before squeezing the trigger: IDENTIFY THE TARGET!
We have all heard the horror stories of family members accidentally deep sixing a loved one for failing the above protocol.
Those of you with well trained spouses/team mates need to understand that anyone, including yourself, can, when under
slow motion inducing pressure/stress, "see" something that isn't there, or see something that is there and misidentify it.
One scenario that can lead to mishaps is "meeting" or coming face to face with your armed partner in the "house clearing" exercise: train to avoid this.
There have been cases of well experienced hunters "seeing" (what the expected to see) a deer when a person is what they shot. One can practice muscle memory, train to a highly skilled level, but, IMHO, the psychological stability/mental preparedness/discipline quotient of the armed individual surpasses make, calibre, accessories, load, and all the rest of the options. What happens in your head when all goes south and terror goes to your core is the difference and there is no fully or complete way to train and prepare for it.
That's where I am with my wife. The way our house is set up, all she has to do is take position and cover one door. We do not have kids so that is a non issue otherwise I would have more work cut out for me. The door she covers is basically all outside walls from her vantage point, so I do not need to worry about her crossfire as I exit the other door and clear the other rooms. Once clear I let her know and I do not enter the room from either door, but have her come out.So I assume you have trained or instructed her to move to cover and stay there?
When I turn in for the night, in addition to securing the perimeter, checking locks, ect., within reach will be my cell, flashlight, Saint, frogsticker, at the minimum. Don't plan on having to make my way to anything (but perhaps the perp).
In my particular case, I am delaying and may never instruct my wife in self defense (with firearms). Why?
She is high end nervous at times, spooks easily, and I'm not certain she can/will exercise the collected discipline necessary to do the paramount thing before squeezing the trigger: IDENTIFY THE TARGET!
We have all heard the horror stories of family members accidentally deep sixing a loved one for failing the above protocol.
Those of you with well trained spouses/team mates need to understand that anyone, including yourself, can, when under
slow motion inducing pressure/stress, "see" something that isn't there, or see something that is there and misidentify it.
One scenario that can lead to mishaps is "meeting" or coming face to face with your armed partner in the "house clearing" exercise: train to avoid this.
There have been cases of well experienced hunters "seeing" (what the expected to see) a deer when a person is what they shot. One can practice muscle memory, train to a highly skilled level, but, IMHO, the psychological stability/mental preparedness/discipline quotient of the armed individual surpasses make, calibre, accessories, load, and all the rest of the options. What happens in your head when all goes south and terror goes to your core is the difference and there is no fully or complete way to train and prepare for it.
You think it does not matter?
My pistol is there to get me to my rifle
I understand your position. I do think that should someone break into my home, that is indeed an act of war and threatens my wife's and I well being. At that point I want a gun that I can maneuver within the confinement of my home and yet be the most efficient at dealing with any threat or number of threats.we are not talking about a soldier fighting within the context of war. There are reasons that planes, tanks, ships, missiles, machine guns and all sorts of hyper destructive weapon are used in war-fighting. What we are talking about is often a very limited engagement, at rather close range with few rounds fired, 2 or 3 total combatants which are similarly armed. Within this context.. NO, I do not think it matter much in regards to [power]. Anything can matter but when I say not much, I simply mean not to any degree that is likely to sway the outcome or be the singular cause of failure. If using a AR9 for a home defense weapons makes you happy... I think its great. There are certainly some inherent handicaps that are commonly associated with the use of a long-gun in CQB. Handicaps which are often mitigated by the assistance of additional defenders. As a lone defender, I would not likely select a rifle for a Home Defense weapon. Others might, many do.. and that is fine. A rifle will certainly do the job. As I said, there are some handicaps to using something with a barrel which will proceed your movement ( if movement is called for). Rifle retention techniques often lean toward yielding the weapon in hand to hand and transitioning to a secondary weapon. Rifles are harder to retain than more wieldy items like a handgun. At least in my opinion anyway. I have always had good luck retaining a handgun during retention training but do not recall ever retaining a rifle that someone else has a hold of. I have had an instructor mop the floor with me by using my own sling against me. Others can do what they want as everyone has a different circumstance. I can only share what I think by using myself as a template. I wont use a rifle as a HD weapon and will opt for something much more wieldy, easier to retain in a struggle and something easily used one handed.
Again, unless we are talking about a hand to hand struggle over a weapon, I dont think it much matters what firearm you are using in such a limited engagement as we typically see in a citizen home defense scenario. That is so long as it is not substantially underpowered or of exceedingly low capacity like a derringer. If a person has a 6 shot 357/38, a M1 Carbine, a AR9, a lever action 30/30 or a 7 shot 1911.. I dont think it much matters in regards to [power]. If you are using a single shot 410 or a 2 shot derringer or something that fires a 22LR, I might feel differently.
People often want to feel like what they personally want to do is actually relevant. Perhaps the difference between a 30 shot AR15 and a 7 shot level action 30/30 could make a different in a carefully constructed scenario. Never the less, I doubt that the difference is going to be what the overwhelming majority of home defense actions hinge upon. Could it? sure.. but I doubt it personally. People who are fretting over this 9mm or that 9mm, this 357 over that 5.56, are probably worried about the wrong thing. I say that while excluding concerns regarding overpenetration. Over penetration could probably be a thread on its own but I am not addressing these concerns in this thread. They dont seem to be part of the topic so I will leave it alone. In my rural setting with only me and the wife ( in the same room), I am not personally concerned with over penetration. I expect that a projectile that hits a wall will likely keep going a good ways.
If people want to worry about something that will probably matter, worry about detecting the danger as early as possible and making good tactical decisions which exploit conditions in your favor. Worry about having the mental grit and clarity to get things done properly. Worry about keeping intruders out to begin with. Worry about having the type of poor curb appeal that causes them to pick someone elses home. Worry about trying to initiate a help response sooner rather than later. I could go on and on but the bottom line here is that I am not a proponent of worrying about things such as having a 9mm or a 12ga. No matter what you decide to use, I hope you are proficient with it and have a good idea of tactics surround that particular platform.
"...overly aggressive 4 legged predators that do ( on occasion) harass us."I tend to agree with what Bob touched on. I have always felt that the weapon you start with is very likely going to be the weapon you finish with. The whole "fighting your way to your rifle" may sound nifty and hint at some level of romanticism but I do not consider the saying to be serious. IMO, transitioning to other weapon during a fight is something that very rarely ever happens outside of sustained war fighting. I wont lie, I have a weatherby 20 gauge squirreled away in the bedroom closet but its not really part of the HD plan outside of being a very last ditch option when everything else has crapped out. On the nightstand right now is a Springfield XDM loaded with 20 rounds of 9mm. It will have to do as I have no delusions about fighting my way to a secondary weapon. My shotgun is primarily for overly aggressive 4 legged predators that do ( on occasion) harass us.
It really does not matter if it is war or not
Edit. I see you side arm is packed to 20. I do not own one that holds that many and might change my mind if I did.
Edit #2. I really need to upgrade my side arm as I have said. LOL