I think the problem with a lot of trainers, and particulary ex-military/SOF is that their baseline is Is on a completely different plane and for them to dial it down goes counter to their training. It’s like when people come to me and ask me what car to buy because I’m a car guy. I drive a Porsche, I’m not going to recommend you buy a Camry or a Tacoma or an EV because I wouldn’t be caught dead in one and I can’t lower my level of expectation. When you try and explain that to people they look at you like an a-hole.I think one of the biggest failures I see from poor instruction is the failure to take context into account, and the differences between being an armed civilian and being a professional.
There are too many instructors from some sort of SOF background (real or claimed) along with others who have spent a career in some sort of professional capacity, and then turn around and become instructors, and think that everyone needs to be trained the same way that they were. They fail to translate their knowledge and skills to a very different customer.
Beyond that, they also often fail to take into account context in the bigger picture level. We all lead different lives, and often in very different contexts. The person who lives in a small rural town probably doesn't have the same threat level to contend with on a daily basis as the person who is a night manager of a liquor in a big city. Why is there such an emphasis on "assessing threats" in the moment, but not in terms of the bigger-picture of what one's day to day existence looks like?
And so, the lazy instructor offers a "one size fits all" scenario for their students, in which everyone needs to be professionally outfitted, with a high capacity semi-auto, and at least one if not two reloads, every minute of their lives, whether at home or going to the grocery store, and anything less than that is considered a compromise, if not a failure. This is terrible instruction, imo, and people should get their money back if they paid and spent a day having this one-dimensional perspective shoved down their throats.
I could go on about this, and about how poorly the training community serves the average citizen, but that's enough for now.
....It’s like when people come to me and ask me what car to buy because I’m a car guy. I drive a Porsche, I’m not going to recommend you buy a Camry or a Tacoma or an EV because I wouldn’t be caught dead in one and I can’t lower my level of expectation. When you try and explain that to people they look at you like an a-hole.
I think the problem with a lot of trainers, and particulary ex-military/SOF is that their baseline is Is on a completely different plane and for them to dial it down goes counter to their training. It’s like when people come to me and ask me what car to buy because I’m a car guy. I drive a Porsche, I’m not going to recommend you buy a Camry or a Tacoma or an EV because I wouldn’t be caught dead in one and I can’t lower my level of expectation. When you try and explain that to people they look at you like an a-hole.
I have found that the training guys I like most are active SWAT guys because they have that extreme level of training, but they deal with the public as a victim on a daily basis and they see and understand the impact that it has on the normal person. The SWAT guys I train with are the only trainers who have given me an alternate view on why I SHOULDN’T have taken the shot during a house invasion training session even though the shot was righteous. I really appreciated that because it taught me that there is always time to think even when your brain is dialed up to 11. Btw, they had tailored the drill based on a conversation I had with them about how I would respond if someone broke in to my house.
Sounds like you started in LE about I retired. I worked LAPD from 1971 untilI retired from a shooting in 1994. In the 70s, perps were a bit more trigger happy and the rules about use of force a bit more lenient. We had the Weather Underground, SLA, Black Panthers, Black Muslims, Brown Berets, and a few others. A much more freewheeling society back then.Coming up on 32 years of Law Enforcement Service and could and would have been justified many many times in using deadly force and I can say that in every encounter the suspect either surrendered or I managed to verbally convince them to do the right thing or alternate methods were used to take the person into custody. As a Firearms Instructor whether I'm teaching Officers or civilians it is stressed that deadly force should be the last option used... Just my two cents...