I just caught that the 43 was for home defense. For some reason I thought it was for carry. I reread your original post and saw you said he doesn't want to carry.
Interesting choice for a home defense gun. If I only wanted one for home defense, I definitely would have wanted something bigger. In fact, right now, I am searching for a full size home defense gun. I currently have a Hellcat Pro and Kimber Custom 45ACP. I am far more accurate with the Kimber but it's only 8+1. And there's no rail for a light, which I want to add.
he's "like me", in his high 70's......
so he feels that to carry just is not for him.
as i was told, he just wanted "something" to keep by his bedside. i had no input into his decision, in fact, he bought the gun before i even started going to that bait/tackle/gun store.
he took to my CZ 75B today, a very stout all steel 9mm. he likes the way it is controllable for recoil, over the very snappy G-43.
he also likes the feel and heavier weight of my 1911's.
he has actually said he "might" be buying a heavier gun for range use only, and keep the G-43 in the drawer.
but that might or might not happen, him buying 1 more gun at this time.
in any event he had a great time again today.
it'll be a "few weeks" till i can take him to the club again, with the holiday season, and our respective responsibilities.