Hello all, here is today's article posted on TheArmoryLife.com. It is titled “Red Dots, Lights & Lasers: CCW Necessities, or Total Hype?” and can be found at
https://www.thearmorylife.com/red-dots-lights-lasers-ccw-necessities-or-total-hype/.
Great article, Mike! And extra kudos for the fit and tactical young lady who led us here.
I checked my opinions at the door before I read the article (and I'm going to uncheck them here). My wife and I started our firearm journey about 5-6 years ago. Our first pistol was a Ruger 9E. We still have it and my wife still shoots it better than the myriad (okay, handful of) pistols we have acquired (some of which have been discarded) in the meantime. I suspect it's because the 9E is heavier, has a longer bore axis, fits her hands, is well broken in, and (finally) is now equipped with high visibility night sights.
So, what have we jettisoned? A Smith & Wesson Shield 2.0 and a Hellcat - both of which felt like holding a small porcupine that wanted nothing more than for us not to be holding it. What have we kept? The Ruger 9E, my EDC, a Springfield XD Mod.2 subcompact in 9mm ("too heavy" for my wife to carry), our Springfield XDM Elite Tactical OSP, our Springfield Ronin commander-sized 1911, and our Ruger AR556 - nicely accoutered.
My wife also had - and liked - a Glock 43X, but recently loaned it to our son who lives in TX. We may yet get it back... we'll see.
What have we learned?
The Shield taught us lasers are crap (for us). I know some folks like them, but to me they are the firearm equivalent of a cat toy.
The Hellcat taught us no matter how much you want to like a firearm, if it's not for you, get rid of it (no safe queens allowed; these darn things are too expensive to sit around collecting dust).
The 9E taught us, just because a firearm doesn't cost an arm and a leg doesn't mean it can't run reliably and be a solid shooter.
The XD Mod.2 taught us (me) how to carry concealed. It also taught me everything I'd read about having a holster drawer was true - at least until you find the one.
The XDM (blah blah blah all those other terms in the full name) taught me how much fun shooting can be. It also taught me how to shoot a red dot... after more than 4,000 dry fire trigger pulls with my Mantis X10 (so many, they're sending me a replacement unit), hundreds (if not a couple thousand) of rounds, and a couple of training classes, I really like a red dot... but I do at least a half-dozen holster draw/presents with my XD Mod.2 every day so I don't lose the ability to front-sight focus. In my opinion, a properly zeroed red dot is a very useful piece of gear, without the "cat toyness" of a laser.
In general, we've learned that there are thousands of manufacturers, resellers, so-called experts and influencers who want to separate us from our hard-earned cash. My gosh - I ALMOST bought a plate carrier for goodness' sake - until a good friend who is a much better and more experienced shooter than I asked a question: What exactly are you going to need that for? If money were no object, I'd probably have all the stuff, but he said, "If it gets to the point where you actually need a plate carrier, we have bigger problems that it will solve."
Instead, he said, buy some ammo, go to the range, take a training course. In the long run, that will help you much more than a plate carrier that hangs in the closet 99% of the time.
Since then, I haven't bought any new firearms (but I really, really want too!! I'm looking at you, Echelon... and Walther PDP, and...). I've spent money on ammo and training. And you know what? I think my friend was right.