ddeuce22
Professional
Most of us have different levels of comfort with firearms in general, and some are more experienced with firearms than others. I personally hesistate to put too much pressure on someone else to adapt to or accept things "my way." I would feel horrible if they tried to comply and wound up getting hurt or killed. I would not be comfortable carrying a 1911 locked and loaded, depending only on the safety and my trigger discipline, especially in the heat of the moment in a life or death confrontation. Others are very comfortable doing that (or at least say they are). If someone is apprehensive, I think the best approach is to try to give them more exposure and experience with firearms and let them decide as they "mature how best to carry. My $0.02 worth
I agree with your sentiment, but its hard to get her to that point because she doesn't really take the initiative to get there, and when I ask her to sign up for some classes with me or come to the range, more often than not I end up going by myself. I guess it's just a bit frustrating but I know I can only push her so much. Hopefully she comes around and becomes more receptive to it. I just want her to be able to take care of herself god forbid i'm not around.