My wife has rheumatoid arthritis in her hands. It's hard for her to pull the trigger on most revolvers. Most semi-autos are too hard for her to rack the slide. So what works well for her? A Smith & Wesson M&P .380 Shield. She is deadly accurate with it. We know Smith & Wesson make a 9mm version, but it has a little bit more "snap" to it than the .380, which she can shoot for long periods, but not so long with a 9mm, as even that hurts her hands after a few magazines. So I would say in her case, .380 beats out 9mm any day.
There aren’t a whole lot of “covert” 9mm pistols out there. There’s lots of .380’s that fit the bill, though. Sometimes, even a subcompact 9 is going to be too big to carry, and still be rapidly accessible, where a small .380 will work perfectly.
As far as lighter recoil...since most .380’s come in small, lightweight packages and/or are straight blowback...yeah, I can see it's not much of an argument...but, put it in a similar pistol (thinking Shield EZ, here) and the difference is noticeable...and if you are recoil sensitive, it can be a world of difference.
.380 ammo is nearly always more expensive than 9mm.Its half the weight and slower in pretty much every barrel length you can get a subcompact in..so never
The ammo is often the same price at best and you can get some very small single stack 9mms (ruger lc9 ect)
Yeah thats why I said (at best) lol.380 ammo is nearly always more expensive than 9mm.