Both my SA XD Mod.2 3" and XDM Elite Tactical OSP have grip safeties. I kind of like them because - if nothing else - they force me to get a decent grip on the firearm. That wasn't a bad thing when I was a newbie and now that I'm not, I don't really notice them.I just don't like that grip safety...
I need more range time with my Ronin 4.25" 1911 and want to get a full-size (government) model at some point. I like the 1911s and respect their storied lineage, but I "grew up" in the firearms world with striker-fired pistols and they are what I carry and use the most. That said, if the Mrs. and I every get our land in the country, I'll be tempted to carry a 1911 on my belt.
If I'm snobby about this subject at all, it's that if I'm going to carry a 1911, it'll be chambered in .45 ACP as the Lord and John Browning intended.