Good luck, Thrun, and welcome to the forum.
I usually don’t fit in with the crowd very well, and with guns and carrying, that pretty much continues. I know you are attracted to the Hellcat, and based on what I have read, it is a great gun. However, for me personally, I have no use for any striker fired pistol. I carry either a double action only revolver in a Mika holster in my front right pocket, or a single action/double action semi-auto in an appendix inside the waistband (aka AIWB) holster from Crossbreed. Neither has a manual safety, but the longer/stiffer trigger pull for all shots with the S&W model 642 or the double action first shot of the semi-auto is my safety. I feel like with a modicum of conscienceness, either is perfectly safe for me. If you study actual “private citizen” self defense shootings, most are finished either before a shot is fired or within 3 shots if shooting is necessary. So for me, a five shot revolver is okay 95% or more of the time carried around in my pocket and is among the most convenient and unobtrusive way to carry. Just drop it in my pocket when I am also dropping my wallet and keys in other pockets and walk out the door. I like simple. When I am also responsible for protecting other people AND myself at church, I feel I may need more ammo on board and carry a semi-auto AIWB. I use my thumb on the hammer when holstering the semi-auto to be sure I don’t have an accidental discharge. I also carry the semi-auto other times depending on my mood and circumstances. Nothing is 100% fail safe I guess, but these are mr preferences.
I know this is a long post and apologize. I wanted to maybe explain my thinking a little more than I usually do since you are new to concealed carry and are soliciting advice. Good luck in your search for the perfect solution FOR YOU. I subscribe to Keith Graves’ Christian Warrior You Tube channel, and he always ends with “Remember your ABC’s. Always Be Carrying.”