Old school here..........fig'er if I'm the customer (pay'in the bill) then I am in charge. Years back when my wife (92 # wet) was pregnant with the first we went to a clinic as we had no "family" doctor. Sweetheart had morning sickness bad, weak, no fat on her at all and a fair assumption she was anemic. After the preliminaries the nurse came in with four vials to draw blood. I voiced my concerns to the nurse, gave permission to draw one vial of blood; we would return when Sweetie gained a bit of strength. The nurse was uncertain, said she would consult with the doctor. The nurse returned with the (Lady) doctor, who was loaded for bear. Lady Doc lectured me like a school boy, "this procedure, that procedure, " "and we are going to draw a "bunch" (her word) of blood"! I spoke to Sweetheart (on her back in the stirrups) "get dressed Honey, we are in the wrong office". Lady Doc was ready for round #2 but I asked her to excuse herself, my wife wanted privacy. It was real quiet as we passed the "pay window" and out the door.