Hans, you didn't read my post carefully buddy ..... I said "..... it would be very difficult if not impossible for a 3 yr old to release a safety
if any, ......" (emphasis is mine) so obviously I didn't assume any gun had a safety.
We will have to agree to disagree whether or not a typical three yr old would be able to depress a 4-6# trigger. Most 3 yr olds simply do not have the reach, the dexterity, nor the hand/finger coordination nor strength to depress a similar trigger .......... whether holding "like an adult would" or not.
I never said it was impossible, I did say it was unlikely, and especially in so many similar cases. Of course there is somewhere a 3 yr old who can do all these things. But in reality, he/she/it would be a rarity, not the typical 3 yr old.
And, I would never be so bold, or crude as to tell you that "you need to stop assuming", or that "you need to stop" anything. I will assume you are a fully grown adult and capable of making your own decisions about your actions and don't need my direction.
And lastly I'll say this .......... this post of yours seems to me to be so unlike you and/or the majority of your posts. You are generally courteous, generally knowledgeable, and rarely if ever this belligerent. With all due respect, this post seems highly unlike you.